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Aug 06 2012

Stop, Look, and Listen for Better Marketing

Young children are often taught to “stop, look, and listen” before they cross the street. Stop to see what’s in front of you. Look both ways to make sure no cars are coming. And, listen for any oncoming traffic. This same principle works in marketing.

For example, I teach marketing seminars at conferences across the country. At many of these events, people can book appointments with me or sit together during a meal to ask marketing-related questions. Yet, I’m surprised by how many individuals waste these opportunities.

Rather than take advantage of the brief time to request my expert advice for free, some people use up the time by talking almost the entire meeting. I simply sit there wondering if they want to learn or just hear themselves talk. These individuals might be authors, business leaders, or non-profit directors. But, they’re so caught up in their own world that they forget to stop, look, and listen to outside input.

Don’t make the same mistake. If you’re an author, listen to feedback from an avid reader, literary agent, editor, or publisher. If you’re a business owner, listen to your key customers. If you’re a non-profit director, listen to major donors or frequent volunteers. Use “stop, look, and listen” to your advantage:

Stop: Stop talking so much about your book, product, or charitable cause. When you meet someone who could help you grow, get to the point and maximize the opportunity to gain valuable insights. Quickly describe what you do or explain your question, but keep a mental clock in your head that says that “stop” when 60 seconds are up. Talk less and ask more.

Look: Look both ways to see if communication is flowing evenly. Are you inviting the other person to share their feedback? Or, do you over-explain so much that it prevents someone else from giving you outside perspective that could be beneficial?

Listen: Listen for oncoming advice. If someone gives you constructive criticism, pause to listen and absorb their point. Write it down. You don’t have to implement or agree with someone else’s input. But, their skepticism or advice might give you a window into improving your marketing effectiveness. Half the battle of capturing a wider audience is understanding and overcoming a skeptic’s concerns. Your promotional efforts will strengthen when you incorporate a wider perspective.

Don’t get run over by a missed opportunity to learn and grow. “Stop, look, and listen” for valuable input that can improve your marketing.

 

Written by Rob Eagar · Categorized: Author Tips, Marketing Tips, Monday Morning Marketing Tips

About Rob Eagar

Rob Eagar is the founder of WildFire Marketing, a consulting practice that helps authors and publishers sell more books and spread their message like wildfire. He is one of the rare consultants to help both fiction and nonfiction books hit The New York Times bestsellers list. Rob has consulted with numerous publishers and trained over 1,000 authors. He is the creator of The Author's Guide Series, a comprehensive collection of resources that teaches authors how to sell more books. Find out more at: WildFire Marketing and follow Rob on Twitter.

Comments

  1. Anna says

    August 6, 2012 at 4:41 pm

    Dear Rob,
    I am preparing to give a talk about the value of listening. Your blog couldn’t have come at a better time. Can I quote you? “Stop talking so much…” is the theme of my presentation. I frequently consider writing to let you know how often the information you give is “just in time”. If you are ever in the Northwest I look forward to meeting you.

    Regards,
    Anna Thomas Briggs
    Portland, Oregon

    • Rob Eagar says

      August 6, 2012 at 5:23 pm

      Thanks, Anna. Glad you found today’s tip helpful and timely. You are welcome to quote me.

      Rob

  2. Carolyn Ruch says

    August 6, 2012 at 5:04 pm

    My recent FB status was “Look out world. I’ve got a marketing plan, and I know how to use it.” Thanks for all you taught us at the Philly conference. Ken and I asked, listened, and you were so gracious to answer. Thank you, Thank you. And on behalf of all the adults who will learn how to build a bridge of communication with children regarding the issue of sexual abuse–thank you again.

    Carolyn Byers Ruch
    Founder – RiseAndShineMovement.org
    Let us help you protect the children you love from sexual abuse.
    And together we can protect the children of the world.

    • Rob Eagar says

      August 6, 2012 at 5:25 pm

      Carolyn,

      You’re welcome. I enjoyed meeting you and Ken in Philadelphia. I’m glad you found my instruction so helpful. I look forward to hearing how your message grows and impacts thousands of people.

      Rob

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